My friend R and I were just talking about vacations. She’s coined the term “Vacation Depression”. It’s that stage you go through when you return to life after a vacation. Yoda she is, so I decided to write about this interesting discussion here.
Vacation depression is when you head back into life, and everything hits you all at once. Family, work, friendships, relationships. That vacation relaxation bubble when you were care free, disappears and the responsibilities of being an adult hit you all over again. It also seems to be the time when if something could go wrong, it will. Stress will multiply, sometimes exponentially. Makes you wonder why we go on vacations?
Tonight, I’m reminded that sometimes, life is short. We all get caught up in a zone of all the little things that bother us, drag us down, or tie us up in knots. Sometimes, we have to take a step back and look at the big picture. Some of the little shit, it’s petty. We don’t know what’s around the corner. What tests are waiting to trip us up or bring us to the very brink of our own strength or sanity.
I’ve struggled this week with R’s “Vacation Depression”. I keep dreaming that I hear the ocean. I miss it. I miss swimming in it every day. Some people center themselves with meditation, some with a walk in the park. Me? I like to swim. And that warm salty ocean was just what I needed.
Goodnight again Neverland. Sleep well and dream of warm peaceful oceans. 🙂
Oh – and R… on your gravestone, it should say … Yoda, she was. 😉